Tuesday, July 31, 2018

Leaving my mark, completing and living my legacy

It's my Senior Year and I am planning on leaving my mark and completing and living my legacy at New Canaan High School for the Rams. In the fall, I will be doing it for New Canaan Football. And in the winter, I will do it with New Canaan Wrestling. And in the spring, I will do it with New Canaan Lacrosse. I will also leave my mark and complete and live my legacy with the St. Aloysius Roman Catholic Church Emmaus Youth Ministry. I'm also going to leave my mark and complete and live my legacy at my internships with New Canaan Fire Co. No. 1, New Canaan Parking Commission, New Canaan Library, and hopefully Veterans of Foreign Wars Post 653 both at New Canaan High School and at the New Canaan Public Schools LAUNCH Program. 

After High School and LAUNCH, I will be leaving my mark and completing and living my legacy when I do training for my driver's license. Once I have my license, I will be leaving my mark and completing and living my legacy by serving in the United States Marine Corps as an 0311 Infantry Rifleman. After 4 years of seeing combat around the globe, I will be leaving my mark and completing and living my legacy when I become either SWAT or K9 and NCHS School Resource Officer for the New Canaan Police Department, O-Line or D-Line Coach for the New Canaan High School Varsity Football Team, and still volunteer in Youth Ministry at St. A's. The results will mean something in the end.


Monday, July 30, 2018

Why Miley Cyrus/Miley Stewart/Hannah Montana is important to me

Miley Cyrus and her Disney Character Miley Stewart who’s stage name is Hannah Montana is important to me because she is very determined, adacious, witty, compassionate, stylish and hyper. And I possess all those character traits. She and I have the same white skin, brown hair, and blue eyes. When she's not Hannah, she's Miley. Her dad Robby calls her Mile for short and her brother Jackson calls her Miles for short. She and I sometimes do things that are wrong to do. She and I have our special talents. She and I look exactly like twin cousins and I kept saying to everyone I know, "It's like we was related." We both have went through struggles in our lives but found our way to get back up on our own 2 feet. These are lyrics from her song “The Climb” to describe that sentence: “There's always gonna be another mountain I'm always gonna wanna make it move Always gonna be an uphill battle Sometimes I'm gonna have to lose Ain't about how fast I get there
Ain't about what's waiting on the other side It's the climb.” 

In both Hannah Montana The Movie and TV Show, Miley Stewart and Hannah Montana struggled with relationships in her father, her brother Jackson, her best friend Lilly, her Grandma Ruby, and her lifelong friends Travis and Oliver,  but managed to get passed those struggles and to care for them. She also struggled with other things and that’s how she wrote my favorite Hannah Montana, Miley Stewart, and Miley Cyrus song, “The Climb.”

I struggled with things such as relationships with my family and friends, getting out of a School I hated, medication problems, disability struggles, and others. 

When I was going through a crisis, I struggled with relationships with family and friends as well as medication and my autism. I had to spend a good week and a half in the Yale-New Haven Hospital in the Mental Instutitional Unit. I never had a criminal record, but did pretty messed up shit that was fucking messed up. But I kept fighting back and I feel better. I also struggled getting out of my old boarding school, Maplebrook School when I also did messed up shit there too. But I managed to get out of there and was able to go to New Canaan High School. 

Miley Cyrus/Miley Stewart/Hannah Montana all pursued their goals of being singers and following in her dad, Robby Ray Stewart/Billy Ray Cyrus's footsteps when they still struggled in life. 

My goal after High School is to get a medical waiver for my autism to follow in my dad's footsteps and serve my country and join the United States Marine Corps as a 0311 Infantry Rifleman, become either a SWAT or K9 and NCHS School Resource Officer for the New Canaan Police Department, become an O-Line or D-Line Coach for the New Canaan High School Varsity Football Team, and continue to volunteer at St. Aloysius Roman Catholic Church. 

What I did achieve this past School year was going to New Canaan High School and playing Varsity Football and I will soon be pursuing playing time for both Varsity Wrestling and Varsity Lacrosse for the Rams. And I also accomplished being a member of the St. Aloysius Roman Catholic Church Emmaus Youth Ministry. 

“There's always gonna be another mountain
I'm always gonna wanna make it move
Always gonna be an uphill battle
Sometimes I'm gonna have to lose
Ain't about how fast I get there
Ain't about what's waiting on the other side
It's the climb.” -Hannah Montana, Miley Stewart, and Miley Cyrus 

Saturday, July 28, 2018

How do I want to be remembered?

When I die, I will likely go to heaven. I have done a lot of good things in my life. I have been baptized, received reconciliation and communion, and got confirmed in the Roman Catholic Church and was in my Church's Youth Ministry. I was also an active athlete growing up who played all kinds of sports in New Canaan, Connecticut but focused on Football, Wrestling, and Lacrosse when I got to New Canaan High School. I was a multi star athlete for the Rams. I would then go on to the  LAUNCH Program in New Canaan. While on a 2 year plan, I had internships that I had at NCHS that included working at New Canaan Fire Co. No. 1, Baldanza Cafe, New Canaan Parking Commission, New Canaan Library, and Veterans of Foreign Wars Post 653. After a 2 year plan at LAUNCH, I would enlist in the United States Marine Corps as an 0311 Infantry Rifleman and would see combat around the globe. After 4 years in the Marine Corps, I then served as a SWAT or K9 and the NCHS School Resource Officer for the New Canaan Police Department. I was also a O-Line or D-Line Coach for the New Canaan Varsity Football Team. I would continue to volunteer at St. Aloysius Roman Catholic Church with the Youth Ministry.

I want to be remembered as the accomplished Football player, Wrestler, and Lacrosse player, the tough United States Marine that never surrendered and defeated the enemy, the Police Officer who would always protect you, the Football Coach that was dedicated to changing player's lives, and most of all, the believer in Christ.

Friday, July 27, 2018

Interests and Desires

I take a careers class at New Canaan High School with Mr. Joe Ditolla. He teaches me and my classmates about employment out there and teaches us how to properly work at the job. He sends his students with internships out into the community. As a newly transferred student last year, I was supposed to start out with a job inside school and it was to go into the NCHS Library. But that changed when Mr. Ditolla, my case manager Ms. Hammond, speech therapist Ms. Mahon, and job coach Ms. Cottrell noticed my level of independence was at an all time high and that my job skills were at an all time high. So then I became the first new student to work out in the community. I worked at Baldanza Cafe, New Canaan Library, New Canaan Parking Commission, and now I work at New Canaan Fire Co. No. 1. I hope to intern at the Veterans of Foreign Wars Post 653. I even work in the Ramazon School Store with my Careers class to get extra work time in.

One of the things that we went over in Careers class is interests and desires. I am going to explain what my interests and desires I pursued and the interests and desires that I'm in the process of pursuing.

1. Sports (Football, Wrestling, Lacrosse) Pursued one and in the process of pursuing the others

2. Youth Ministry Pursued

3. Military (U.S. Marine Corps) in the process of pursuing

4. First Responding (New Canaan Fire Dept. and New Canaan Police Dept.) Pursued one and in the process of pursuing another

5. Coaching (Football) in the process of pursuing

My More Professional Bio

Let's start from the beginning, shall we?

My name is Myles Baliotti and I am from New Canaan, Connecticut. I grew up an athlete that played all kinds of sports but focused on Football, Wrestling, and Lacrosse at New Canaan High School in New Canaan, Connecticut and am currently training to see playing time this year since it's my senior year. After I graduate, I am going to the New Canaan Public School's LAUNCH Program to continue to work at my current internships.. One at New Canaan Fire Co. No. 1, one at New Canaan Library, and one at New Canaan Parking Commission. I hope to get one at Veterans of Foreign Wars Post 653. I also enjoy being involved with Youth Ministry at St. Aloysius Roman Catholic Church in New Canaan. I come from a family of 1 brother and 1 sister and my mom and dad. My brother, Jed plays Ice Hockey at Berkshire School in Sheffield, Massachusetts and is a USA Hockey National Development Goalie. My sister, Celia does gymnastics and currently training to be a competitive gymnast and goes to New Canaan Country School. My mom, Kate is a retired Fashion Designer, Parsons School of Design Graduate, and was an accomplished Basketball player at Sir Francis Drake High School in San Anselmo, California. My dad, Marc works in Private Equity at GSO Capital Partners and Blackstone Group, United States Navy Veteran, United States Naval Academy Graduate and accomplished Rugby player, and was an accomplished Swimmer at New Canaan High School. My brother Jed and I are 1 year apart and almost share the exact same interests and desires. When I grow up I'd like to serve in the United States Marine Corps. I want to serve in the Marine Corps because my dad went to the Naval Academy and served as an Officer and a Diver in the U.S. Navy, and the Marine Corps is a Department of the Navy and the Naval Academy trains Navy and Marine Corps Officers. My uncle Brian was an Enlisted U.S. Navy Sailor and served as a Radio Operator on Submarines and Destroyers, both my Uncle Dan and Uncle Vinnie Falotico served in the U.S. Army, and my uncle Vinnie Speziale served as a U.S. Air Force Airman during the Korean War and I have the utmost respect for all their services. But the main reason is that no one in my family was ever a Marine and I would be the first Marine in the Baliotti and McCarthy families. I want to enlist as an 0311 Infantry Rifleman so I can continue the Marine Corps Rifle Tradition and see combat around the globe. After the Marine Corps, I want to become a SWAT or K9 and the NCHS School Resource Officer for the New Canaan Police Department. The reason I want to be a Police Officer is because my uncle who was a Radio Man in the Navy was also a Corrections Officer at a California Penitentiary and guarded Charles Manson. My grandpa, my mom's cousin's husband, and my 2nd cousin were all Firefighters and an EMT. One for Central Valley Fire Department in California, one for the New York City Fire Department in New York, and one for the Englishtown Fire Department in New Jersey. My 2nd cousin became a Lawyer after graduating from Roger Williams University School of Law in Rhode Island. My 2nd cousin is getting her doctorate's degree to becoming a doctor in childhood cancer at Creighton University Medical School in Nebraska, my 2nd cousin is interning for the Stony Brook University Dietitian Program in New York, and my 2nd cousin is a Lifeguard at a Surf Club in New Jersey. I will also be the O-Line or D-Line Coach for the New Canaan High School Varsity Football Team and continue to volunteer at my church.

My family on the bottom

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This past Football Camp and the one in August

This past week, I had Football Camp at Dunning Field at New Canaan High School. I got better with my tackling techniques and blocking techniques. There were 2 other teams that we hosted at our camp and they are the Greenwich High School Varsity Football Team and the New Rochelle High School Varsity Football Team. Former NFL Running Back standout for the Baltimore Ravens Ray Rice is a Coach for his High School, New Rochelle. He played Running Back at New Rochelle HS and then played Running Back at Rutgers University and then was drafted in the 2nd Round with the 55th Pick by the Baltimore Ravens in the 2008 NFL Draft. He even has a Super Bowl Ring. We have a camp in August the whole team is attending. It might either be an overnight or day camp but I'll keep you up to date.

My trip to Spain

Tomorrow, I am going to Spain with my mom, dad, brother, sister, with 3 of my cousins, with 2 of my aunts, my uncle, and my grandparents. We are going to be in Barcelona and Madrid. We are going to do a lot of sightseeing, eating Spanish Food, and lots more. One of the things I’m looking forward to is going to see Sagrada Familia. Sagrada Familia is an unfinished Roman Catholic Church in Barcelona that’s been under construction for at least 200 years and needs another 40 or 50 years of construction. My goal is to be closer to Jesus and God when I go into Sagrada Familia. Spain should be interesting. 🇪🇸

What God built me for

God built me for many things. God built me to be physically and mentally tough, physically and mentally strong, faithful, loyal, and humble. The things that God built me for carry over into my High School Football Career and will carry over into my High School Wrestling and High School Lacrosse Careers all at New Canaan High School. They also carry me over into my Youth Ministry Career at St. Aloysius Roman Catholic Church. What God built me for will also carry over into my Careers in the United States Marine Corps as an 0311 Infantry Rifleman, also  as either a SWAT or K9 and School Resource Officer for the New Canaan Police Department, as either an Offensive Line or Defensive Line Coach for the New Canaan High School Rams Varsity Football Team, and as a volunteer at St Aloysius for the Youth Ministry. God has built me for a lot of things.

Where my family heritage comes from

Both my parents are Catholic, but their families come from different parts of the world. But both of their family heritages are in Europe. My dad's family heritage is from Italy. The Baliotti family immigrated from Sicily, Italy to New York USA. My mom's family heritage is from Ireland. The McCarthy family immigrated from County Mayo, Ireland to New York USA. Being Italian and Irish is a good combination of nationalities. As we always say, Irish Temper, Italian Attitude.

Monday, July 23, 2018

Holidays my family celebrates and our traditions for them

My 2 Purposes In Life

My first purpose in life is to work hard at whatever I do. I have been recently working hard to get on the field on September 8th against St. Joe's for our season opener in Football. This past school year, I have been working hard in the classroom and managed to get High Honors 3 out of 4 quarters of the school year. I hopefully will manage to work beyond my limits this upcoming school year as I prepare for the future. I hope to get High Honors all 4 quarters and hopefully see the field this Football season, and hopefully also see the mat in Wrestling and the field in Lacrosse. I also have been working hard at my internships. The Firefighters at New Canaan Fire Co. No. 1 have really appreciated my hard work. Same with the Librarians at New Canaan Library and the Parking Officials at New Canaan Parking Commission.

My second purpose in life is to help other people. I have been helping other people through our activities that we do when I'm with the St. Aloysius Roman Catholic Church Youth Ministry. I have done things like a Cinco De Mayo party with the kids at Breakthrough, played bingo and made crafts with the elderly seniors at the retirement home, took the Thorpe kids to the park in the Bronx borough of New York City, and lots more! I will hopefully continue to help other people in the near future like my family members have done. I plan on serving and protecting other people as an 0311 Infantry Rifleman in the United States Marine Corps, also as a SWAT or K9 and School Resource Officer with the New Canaan Police Department, helping Student athletes as a coach on the New Canaan High School Varsity Football Team, and continue to help the same type of people that I help now by still volunteering with my congregation, St. A's. The type of family members that I have that help or have helped other people is my dad, Marc, my Uncle Brian, my Uncle Vinnie Falotico, my Uncle Dan, my Uncle Vinnie Speziale who are all Veterans with 2 in the U.S. Navy, 2 in the U.S. Army, and 1 in the U.S. Air Force and I have the utmost respect for all their services. Also, my grandpa was a Firefighter with the Central Valley Fire Department, my mom, Kate's cousin Joanne's husband Paul Roncallo who was a Firefighter with the New York City Fire Department, my 2nd cousin Connor Flynn who is a Firefighter and an EMT with the Englishtown New Jersey Fire Department, my 2nd cousin Katie O'Brien who just graduated from Roger Williams University School of Law and is now a Lawyer, and my 2nd cousin Lindsay Zayia who is pursuing her medical career at Creighton University Medical School who will become a doctor for Childhood Cancer. My family is dedicated to helping people.

Sunday, July 22, 2018

What is God calling me to do?

For every Catholic, God calls them to do something in their life. Whether it’s to get married, be single, become a priest, and whatever you believe God is calling you to do. For me, I believe God is calling me to be a United States Marine Corps Infantry Rifleman, SWAT or K9 and School Resource Officer for the New Canaan Police Department, a Football Coach at New Canaan High School, and still be a volunteer at St. Aloysius Roman Catholic Church. Because all of those things that I believe God is calling me for are all helpful things to other people. God is calling me to do something that’s bigger than myself.

Friday, July 20, 2018

Steubenville NYC Catholic Conference 2018

I am at Steubenville NYC 2018 with the St. Aloysius Roman Catholic Church Youth Ministry. The Steubenville Conference at St. John’s University in Queens, New York City was actually founded by guys from Franciscan University in Steubenville, Ohio but also do multiple other conferences around the United States. And it allows its participating Youth Ministries from the Diocese that St. A’s belongs to, which is one of the most active Dioceses in the country, to be closer to Jesus and God. We do things such as Confession, Adoration, but the rest you’ll have to strike up a conversation with me about. But it allows me to do what I do at Emmaus retreats and Youth Ministry activities, to be closer to Jesus and God. God Bless in the name of the father, the son, and of the holy spirt. Amen.

Thursday, July 19, 2018

How I build strength and condition well

I build strength and do really good conditioning by training with both Bill Curcio at Curcio Training at HALO Fitness in New Canaan and with the NCHS Outside Linebackers Coach and Strength and Conditioning Coordinator, Jason Miska. They both work me well. We do workouts that range from cardio work, lifting, core workouts, etc. These workouts aren't just for Football, but they are also to help me stay in shape and work for my other goals such as serving in the United States Marine Corps and serving in the New Canaan Police Department. I get tougher every time.

Charities and worthy causes I support

1. Marine Corps Law Enforcement Foundation
2. New Canaan Athletic Foundation
3. Navy SEAL Foundation
4. New Canaan Football Association
5. Veterans of Foreign Wars
6. New Canaan Old Timers Association
7. Travis Manion Foundation
8. Wounded Warrior Project
9. U.S. Naval Academy Alumni Association and Foundation
10. Brendan Looney Foundation
11. Lone Survivor Foundation
12. Sticks and Shootout for Soldiers

Athletes

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Following sports



I love professional sports. I like the NFL, MLB, NHL, NBA, NCAA, and Olympics. For NFL, I like the San Francisco 49ers and my favorite player is Jimmy Garoppolo. For MLB, I like the San Francisco Giants and my favorite player is Hunter Pence. For NHL, I like the Washington Capitals and my favorite player is TJ Oshie. For NBA, I like the Golden State Warriors and my favorite player is Draymond Green. For NCAA I like the Navy Midshipmen of the United States Naval Academy and I like all the student athlete Midshipmen. For Olympics, I like Team USA and my favorite Olympians are Michael Phelps and Lindsey Vonn. Sports is a way of life.

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Hobbies

I have a lot of hobbies. They range from playing on electronics, physical activity, etc. My hobbies when I am in and out of the Marine Corps and New Canaan Police, I will enjoy Hunting, Shooting Sports, Fishing, Golf, Camping, Hiking, Cooking, Barbecuing, etc. I have lots to enjoy.

Wednesday, July 18, 2018

Emmaus Senior Year

With my Youth Ministry at St. Aloysius Roman Catholic Church in New Canaan, I am going to get more involved like I did this year. I will go to activities like Thorpe, to be with my buddy Jero, do activities with the kids at Breakthrough, doing activities with the elderly retirement home citizens, like my friend Rinna, who is from Italy, feed the homeless and unfortunate, and go to the Catholic Underground. I even will consider to Mrs. Otis about doing an activity with the War Veterans over at the VFW Post 653. I think it would teach them what Christ called them to do. And don't forget our Emmaus Retreats! This November, I will be working at E76 with my mom, Kate. My mom will be on Team Cha, that gets to make meals and desserts. I will either be on Cele or Chara. One of those teams brings fun and excitement to the candidates and the other gets to write letters to the candidates. E76 will be a blast!

Sports to play after my Senior Football Season

As you all know, I play Varsity Football for the Rams of New Canaan High School. It is my senior year and we are heading into this season highly touted. We are in the process of going 13-0 and winning the Class LL State Championship, FCIAC Championship, and Turkey Bowl with the incredible Senior Class I'm in with 4 Division 1 College Football Commits. But after Football Season, I won't have anything to train for Football wise because I'm graduating. So, after Football season I have decided to try out for the Varsity Wrestling and Boys Varsity Lacrosse Teams at New Canaan High School. I would be a Defenseman in Lacrosse and a tough wrestler. Like I am an Offensive Guard and Defensive Tackle in Football. I hope to make this the best athletic school year yet.

New Opportunities to look into

So with my internship program at NCHS, I so far work for New Canaan Fire Co. No. 1, New Canaan Library, and New Canaan Parking Commission. I am also looking into working at the Veterans of Foreign Wars Post 653 since my goal after 2 years at LAUNCH, passing my driver's license, and getting a medical waiver is to serve in the United States Marine Corps and then serve in the New Canaan Police Department. But I am currently looking into the idea of working at Vineyard Vines with a girl from LAUNCH named Annabelle Clancy and maybe also work at Joe's Pizza. I like Vineyard Vines clothing because it makes me look preppy and classy. And with a job there, you get a employee discount off anything in the store. I hope this all works because I am a hard worker.

Saturday, July 14, 2018

Internships and Youth Ministry

I intern at New Canaan Fire Co. No. 1. I am a maintenance guy there. I clean fire trucks, I vacuum stairs, and I sweep the bay which is where the Fire Apparatuses park. I am friendly with all the Firefighters. I will hopefully continue to work there in the school years at NCHS and LAUNCH.

I also intern at New Canaan Library and New Canaan Parking Commision. I give out and file tickets, I envelope letters, etc. I also do the book drop, put books and dvds away, etc. I also am going to intern at the Veterans of Foreign Wars Post 653 in New Canaan Connecticut. It’ll be interesting. 

I also volunteer for my Youth Ministry at St. Aloysius Roman Catholic Church. We do a lot of things that get us closer to Jesus Christ himself. We have our retreats in November and March. We also feed the homeless, spend time with underprivileged kids, spend time with elderly folks at the retirement home, those types of things. I want to keep up my faith because being both Italian and Irish Catholic is important to my life and so is Jesus, Mary, and God. 


Sports

I play on the Rams Varsity Football Team at New Canaan High School. I play Offensive and Defensive Lineman. We are heading into the 2018 season with a bang. As New Canaan so far has the best Senior Class in the State of Connecticut. 4 of my teammates have already made Division 1 College Football Commits. Junior Quarterback Drew Pyne to Notre Dame. Senior Offensive and Defensive Limeman Jack Stewart to Michigan. Senior Offensive Lineman Jack Conley to Boston College. And Senior Outside Linebacker Garrett Braden to Rice. My class has a huge winning record from 3rd grade all the way up to this point. In 7th grade, we won the FCFL Championship. We went 9-0 our Freshman Season at NCHS. And now, we have a chance of going 13-0 with State, FCIAC, and Turkey Bowl Titles. New Canaan Football has 22 State Championships, 8 FCIAC Championships, 21 FCIAC Division Championships, and 14 Turkey Bowl Wins. But winning all 3 titles and going 13-0 is something that last happened was 10 years ago in 2008. Make it happen.

After Football Season, I will be joining the Rams Varsity Wrestling and Boys Varsity Lacrosse Teams.




United States Marine Corps, New Canaan Police Department, and Coaching Football

Once I get a license and a waiver, I will be enlisting in the United States Marine Corps. I want to join the Marine Corps is because that my dad was a U.S. Navy Officer and Diver. He graduated from the United States Naval Academy in Annapolis, Maryland. And the Naval Academy trains Navy and Marine Corps Officers. I also had an uncle on my mom’s side who enlisted in the U.S. Navy as a Submarine and Destroyer Radio Man. And I had 2 uncles in the U.S. Army. And an uncle in the U.S. Air Force during the Korean War. So I would be he first Marine in my entire family. I want my Military Occupational Specialty (MOS) to be an 0311 which is an Infantry Rifleman. The reason I want to be an Infantry Rifleman is because the Marines live by an ethos. “Every Marine is first and foremost a Rifleman.” And the Infantry Rifleman see a whole lot of combat in the world and America's the most deadly and fierce combat weapons. They never surrender and are hard to beat in a gunfight. Marines have been winning our nation's battles since November 10th, 1775. The Marine Corps Battle Cry is Battles Won. The ultimate reason on why I want to join the Marine Corps is because they are known as the world’s finest fighting force and one of the greatest rewards of serving in the Marines is that there’s no such thing as ex or former Marines, Once A Marine. Always A Marine. Semper Fidelis Always Faithful.


After the Marine Corps, I then want to go back to my hometown, New Canaan, Connecticut and join the New Canaan Police Department and Coach Football. I want to be a Police Officer because my grandpa was a Volunteer Firefighter in Central Valley California, my mom’s cousin’s husband was a FDNY Firefighter, my 2nd cousin is a Firefighter and an EMT in Englishtown, New Jersey. I also have a 2nd cousin who just graduated Roger Williams University School of Law and is now a lawyer and a 2nd cousin who is current at Creighton University Medical School getting her degree in being a doctor in childhood cancer. I want to be either in the SWAT Team or K9 Team, and be a School Resource Officer at New Canaan High School. I also want to coach my Varsity Football Team as either an O-Line or D-Line Coach. I will also continue to volunteer with my youth ministry at St. Aloysius Roman Catholic Church in New Canaan. I always and continue to be a friendly guy in my community.